In reply to "Things may not be what they appear to be." by lpc1998
mirin - 09:20am May 17, 2001 SGT (63.)
to lpc (no.3)
"women of this age can't put all her life into her marriage, there're things outside her marriage for her to fulfill her dreams and aspirations. Otherwise, when her children have grown up and become full fledge, she'll be left with her spouse with emptiness." :-
What I meant above was set aside time for oneself other that family. It's just take away reasonable amount of time to do the things that she did sacrificed doing during early child caring. May be there's a misinterpretation, what I meant doing things outside her marriage it's NOT about STEPping OUT of the marriage BOUNDARY for some immoral things. Also, the couple must spend time together, just exclusively two of them, no children. This is for a healthy, nourishing, rewarding and nurturing lifelong relationship.
Anyway, really appreciate your kind advice and concern. Thanks.